so here is some tips which might help you :
Deepen your conversations. As friends get to know one another, they move on from safe topics, such as the weather or sports teams, to more personal matters. Ask your new friends about themselves, and share your own experiences and feelings.
- For example, if a new friend mentions a difficult experience, invite them to say more about it. Don’t pressure them, but let them know that you are interested and that you care.
- Talk about your hopes and fears. It’s ok to be a bit vulnerable with a friend.
Develop friendship rituals. Close friends often share regular meeting times or activities. These rituals provide the framework for deepening your friendship. You shouldn’t force them, but when it feels natural, look for ways to develop these sorts of rituals.
- Suggest a weekly meeting time. Perhaps you can have lunch on a certain day, or watch the same TV show together.
- If you’re both big fans of the actor or movie franchise, make plans to go together when the next installment comes out.
- Meet up before going to a larger party or club meeting. It’s always nice to walk in with friends!
- Recognize that friendships will wax and wane. Sometimes, for example, a friend might need a lot of support – after the death of a loved one, for example. Other times, you might just catch up once or twice a month.
- Send a message to tell your friend you’re thinking of them, even if you’re both too busy to plan a get-together right away.
- Stay in touch with your friends, even if you live far apart.
Be a good listener. If your friend is having a hard time, be sympathetic and try to understand their perspective. Your most important role is to listen, not to offer advice or try to “fix” your friend’s problems.